Dependent personality disorder (DPD) is described as the need to be cared for by others. This condition results in submissive and clingy behaviour, a fear of separation, and difficulty making decisions without reassurance from others. DPD appears to occur equally among males and females, and usually first appears in early-to-middle adulthood. Dependent personality disorder may be caused by a combination of biological and developmental factors. People exposed to authoritarian or overprotective parenting styles, chronic physical illness, or separation anxiety during childhood may be more likely to develop dependent personality traits.
Symptoms of dependent personality disorder include:
- An inability to make common, everyday decisions without the reassurance of others
- Avoidance of personal responsibility, including tasks requiring independent functioning
- An intense fear of abandonment and a sense of devastation or helplessness when relationships end, and a tendency to quickly seek out and begin new relationships
- Difficulty being alone
- Avoidance of disagreement with others out of fear of losing support or approval
- Willingness to tolerate mistreatment and abuse from others
- Placing the needs of their caregivers above their own
- Over-sensitivity to criticism
- Pessimism and lack of self-confidence, including a belief that they are unable to care for themselves
- Difficulty beginning projects
*The information above is not a diagnostic tool, please seek the help of a qualified medical professional
Ref: American Psychiatric Association: Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Health Disorders, Fifth Edition, Arlington, VA, American Psychiatric Association, 2013.